Category Archives: codependency

Five Steps toward Healing Co-Dependency

Co-dependency has been defined in many ways. At the most basic level, co-dependency is based on the false premise that it is our job to make other people happy and that if we do not, they will no longer love … Continue reading

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Heal Yourselves! Lessons on Detachment

It is said, “The good Lord helps those who help themselves.” The key here is “help themselves.” The Lord (or whatever name you give to the transcendent aspect of the Divine that is said to be a source of guidance … Continue reading

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My Secret Pain – the Call of Beloved Partnership

It is said that “the truth shall set you free.” I have continued to find this to be true.  But knowing that in expressing our truth we shall find freedom and actually expressing our truth are two different things, especially … Continue reading

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The Number One Reason Relationships Fail

In the twenty-plus years I have been counseling individuals and couples, I have identified the number one reason relationships fail: Looking for the other person to complete us.   Co-Dependency In the recovery world, co-dependency is limited to addictive/compulsive patterns of … Continue reading

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Happily Ever After: my latest book available now!

Buy it Now!  Happily Ever After – the Transformational Journey from “You Complete Me” to Beloved Partnership presents a new model for intimate partnership along with the process for getting there. Happily Ever After recognizes that as long as we … Continue reading

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My Purpose is Love

Finding the new life on the other side of the loss. 2016 marks the end of a nine year cycle that began in 2007. For me, the theme of this cycle has been about endings – specifically, the end of … Continue reading

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Power in Our Aloneness

The greatest fear in the human experience is not death, neither is it public speaking.  The greatest fear in the human experience is that we are alone – really, truly, alone; and in this aloneness, life has no meaning and … Continue reading

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The Plight of the Modern Woman in Search for the Modern Man

To all my magnificent single sisters: This one’s for you!  The Plight of the Modern Woman in Search for the Modern Man Intelligent, independent, courageous and strong, Beautiful, generous, thoughtful and kind. Laughing with you over the Holy Grail. Speaking … Continue reading

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Help for the Dark Night of the Relationship

The Dark Night of a Relationship is an important stage in any long-standing, committed relationship.  This is a stage that no one tells us about, neither would we believe it could happen to us as we stand doe-eyed awaiting the celebratory … Continue reading

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You Don’t Complete Me!

Damn, You Don’t Complete Me! Many relationships entered into in our youth are established upon the illusion that the other person will complete us.  We look to the other to fill the emptiness and longing we feel inside.  Eventually, we … Continue reading

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